4 ways to bypass the road blocks to success
What is it that enables us to reach out for success, or indeed keep us stuck in patterns of self sabotage even though it feels like a heart's desire?
You know for sure you have skill in abundance.
Your passion is on fire.
You've sidelined your fears. Well, sort of.
You're giving yourself permission to step off the edge.
You're almost confident there's a net to catch you.
You're at a place of 'Coming Ready or not!'
And you're willing to take Imperfect Action
Yay!!! Congratulations
So what to do now to help continue the momentum?
1. It's only natural
Each and every time anyone of us steps up we experience doubts - it's natural. Thing is to distinguish if those niggly thoughts are ours or if they belong to someone else.
You know the hand me down limiting beliefs written on your walls as you grew up? "What if", "Who me?", "People like us don't ..." "I can't afford ... "
Recognise any of those?
To test this set yourself a big goal or intention and listen out for the reasons and excuses you make to stop yourself succeeding.
2. Surround yourself with those who lift you
It's said you are the sum total of the five people you surround yourself with.
How does that feel?
Seek out people who are going to lift out higher and limit your time with the 'Dream Stealers' and 'Energy vampires' - You know who they are even if you don't like to admit it to yourself.
3. Step into the Arena.
“When we spend our lives waiting until we’re perfect or bulletproof before we walk into the arena, we ultimately sacrifice relationships and opportunities that may not be recoverable, we squander our precious time, and we turn our backs on our gifts, those unique contributions that only we can make,” - Brene Brown
I can't say better than that :0)
4. Celebrate your successes.
Once you've taken the leap it's up to you to keep on saying "Yes" to your dreams.
If you need inspiration and support get yourself a Mentor.
Do the inner work.
Grow. Adapt. Change.
Get yourself a Mentor so you know for sure that when you stand at the edge again you'll have a net to catch you and more importantly she will be the wind beneath your wings to help you soar.
And Remember to Celebrate, Celebrate, Celebrate.
Acknowledge every baby step along the way
Enjoy xx
How do you celebrate your Successes ? Please do share in the space below ;0)x